Oritse Femi has a thing or two to add on the issues of why marriages fail—laying emphasis on the sex.
In a recent chat with PUNCH, the “Double Wahala” hit maker explained the wahala between a married couple, saying it always upsets him when he hears that lack of sex leads to the failure of some marriages in Nigeria.
Using himself as an example, he said that he can never deprive his wife of sex and advised other married men to emulate him! Hehehe!
“Marriage is something that you have to be very diplomatic about. You have to be very careful and know what you are doing because it has its ups and downs. No marriage is perfect,” he pointed out. “Some people think that marriage is all about money but it is not. It takes God and the couple to understand each other. Some people talk about cheating in marriage and that is why I sang in my song, ‘Igbeyawo,’ that women should not starve their husband of sex. If you do that, it would bring problems in your home. I don’t want lack of sex to be a problem in my marriage. Any time my wife wants to have sex, I would always give it to her, at any time!”
You give it to her? Anytime? Hian!
The Musical Taliban number one continued, “Sex should not be the problem. Money could cause problems but don’t let sex be the problem. Get close to your wife and try to understand when she needs it. As a wife, you also need to know when your husband needs to have sex. It pains me when I hear that lack of sex is the cause of some people’s marital crisis. I would rather hear a woman say that she wants her husband to work harder.”